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Love is not a feeling


Have ever heard a marriage brake up based on the phrase “I don’t love them any more? “ or “ I don’t feel loved any more”



Sadly it’s a phrase used as an excuse to walk away from marriage, relationships, God and family and church. the great deception that love is a feeling.

So many broken lives the devil is a liar !!! Love is not a feeling !!! I don’t feel loved has exited my mouth I’m sorry to admit, along with blame, pointing the finger, and all other relational destroying attitudes!!! I wish I was way more matured in this area yet I call on the mercy of God to change me.

We don’t feel loved because we think receiving love is the answer to us feeling loved. We forget the powerful spiritual law when Jesus said Acts 20:35 …And remember the words of the Lord Jesus, that He said, 'It is more blessed to give than to receive.'"

Blessed is defined supremely blest; by extension fortunate well off: - blessed happy (X -ier).

Can you imagine Jesus saying I don’t feel loved ?? Yet he was greatly loved, and modelled how we get to feel loved. He poured His life out on others and the Father made sure He continued with a feeling of being loved. John 15:9 KJV

[9] As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.

John 15:13 KJV

[13] Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.

John 17:26 KJV

[26] And I have declared unto them thy name, and will declare it : that the love wherewith thou hast loved me may be in them, and I in them.

You see to feel loved, you have to stop trying to get loved. Love is given to you as a result of pouring your life into someone else. When we learn to look outward and bless someone we are invoking the spiritual law of receiving love that comes from the Father. He alone is the only one who can fill your love crave.

We place way too much responsibility on others to make us feel loved. Our children, spouse, mother father, friend, church. Its time to let them off the hook and take up your responsibility